Seized by Christ

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Category: Character & Identity

  • The Hidden Drift of the Heart:

    How We’re Drawn Toward or Away from Truth

    Just as the heart can be drawn toward truth through subtle, often non-rational influences—beauty, music, stories, personal example—it can also be led away from truth by equally subtle distortions. These forces often bypass the conscious mind. They don’t argue. They don’t confront. Instead, they quietly shape the will, the desires, and the inner posture of the soul.

    This is why truth is never only about logic or reason. It’s about love. The will must be rightly ordered, not just the intellect. A person may know what’s true in their mind, and yet resist it with their heart. And over time, the heart usually wins.

    What we love shapes what we believe.
    What we repeatedly choose becomes what we eventually defend.
    And the soul develops a posture—a leaning. It can lean toward the light or toward the shadows, often without us realizing it.

    How This Happens

    1. Media and Art
     Media doesn’t need to preach lies outright to shape us. It simply frames what is normal, what is desirable, and what is embarrassing.
    A show might never deny the value of family or faith—but it might always portray them as dull, repressive, or broken.
    Without realizing it, we begin to feel that way too.

    2. Habits and Environments
     What we live with every day—our noise level, our schedule, our screens—shapes our inner world.
    A distracted, noisy life rarely leads to clarity.
    Stillness and silence, on the other hand, prepare the soul to hear truth when it speaks.

    3. Emotional Associations
     Sometimes we reject a truth not because we doubt it, but because it reminds us of pain, rejection, or shame.
    The heart learns to flinch—and eventually to turn away.
    This isn’t always rebellion. Sometimes, it’s self-protection.

    So How Do We Guard the Heart?

    We guard the heart by being intentional about what we let in.
    By choosing beauty over clutter, silence over noise, and truth over convenience.
    By surrounding ourselves with people who lift our gaze higher, not drag us lower.
    And by remembering this:
    Conversion is not just a change in belief.
    It’s a reordering of love.
    It’s not just about accepting truth—it’s about wanting it.

  • Feelings: The Language of the Heart

    Can it be said that feelings are the language of the heart?

    Yes—profoundly so. That simple phrase holds both poetic beauty and psychological truth.

    💓 What Does It Mean to Say Feelings Are the Heart’s Language?

    When we speak of the heart, we’re not referring to the physical organ, but to the symbolic and experiential core of a person—the place of love, longing, fear, joy, guilt, awe, and sorrow.

    Feelings are how the heart speaks—
     not in logic or language, but in sensations, impulses, intuitions, and inner movements.

    Where the mind thinks, the heart feels. Often, the heart feels first—and the mind only later catches up.

    🔔 The Role of Feelings

    Feelings are not irrational noise. They have a function—multiple functions, in fact. They are:

    • Signals – Feelings tell us something is happening, internally or externally.
    • Motivators – They move us to act: to connect, to flee, to speak, to stay silent.
    • Truth-carriers – Even when irrational, they’re honest about what’s stirring inside.

    Think of some common examples:

    • Fear says: “There’s danger or uncertainty here.”
    • Joy says: “This is good and life-giving.”
    • Guilt says: “You’ve violated something important.”
    • Longing says: “Something meaningful is missing.”

    These aren’t just psychological reactions—they are existential messages, rooted in our deepest values and experiences.

    ⚖️ But Feelings Are Not the Whole Story

    While feelings express the truth of the heart, they do not always point to objective truth—or moral clarity.

    They can misfire. They can be shaped by wounds, habits, or fears. As Jordan Peterson puts it:

    “Feelings are real, but not necessarily reliable.”

    They are like a compass that always points somewhere—but might need recalibration.

    That’s why wisdom requires:

    • Listening to feelings (not suppressing them),
    • But also interpreting them,
    • And discerning whether they are rightly ordered or distorted.

    🛠️ Formation: Teaching the Heart to Speak More Truly

    Yes—feelings are the language of the heart. But just as any language can be muddled or misused, so too can the speech of the heart be confused—especially if the heart has been wounded, neglected, or misformed.

    Growth in maturity means learning not just to hear your heart—but to help it speak truthfully.

    This happens through:

    • Experience and reflection
    • Good formation and habits
    • Spiritual disciplines
    • Healthy relationships
    • Grace and love

    We don’t reject our feelings—but we train our hearts, much like we train our minds.

    🧭 Final Thought: Listening and Leading

    Feelings are not enemies of truth—but they are not always guides to it either. They are the heart’s native speech—powerful, honest, and essential. But like any language, it takes practice to understand what is truly being said.

    So listen deeply. Let your heart speak.
    And then—with wisdom, love, and grace—teach it to speak even more clearly.

    Developed with assistance from ChatGPT

  • When the Heart Knows:

    Recovering Embodied Wisdom in an Age of Overthinking

    In a world that prizes rational analysis and verbal precision, it’s easy to forget that some of our most essential knowledge comes not from the head—but from the heart.

    Many wisdom traditions—and increasingly, modern neuroscience—are circling back to this ancient truth: the intelligence of the heart is fast, intuitive, and often more reliable than conscious thought. This is what some call embodied wisdom or somatic knowing—a way of knowing rooted not in arguments but in perception, intuition, and lived experience.

    💡 The Knowing Before Words

    Before language, living beings navigated reality by feeling. A deer doesn’t analyze whether to flee; it knows to run. That knowing is not irrational—it’s pre-rational. It’s rooted in sensation, memory, and response, all firing faster than the speed of thought.

    We often say, “the body knows.” But perhaps it’s more accurate to say:

    “The heart knows — and the body follows.”

    This heart-knowledge isn’t abstract. It manifests in real-time decisions, in gut reactions, in the sense that something is right or wrong even when we can’t explain why. It’s how we move, how we pray, how we love.

    🏀 The Athlete and the Heart-Mind Unity

    Take basketball as an example. When a player takes a shot, there’s no spreadsheet of angles or force calculations flashing through their brain. There is instead a convergence of practice, presence, and intention. The body reacts—but it does so because the heart and mind have already willed the action.

    This is not unconscious. It is pre-verbal. It’s knowing that’s been trained and lived into, not merely thought through. It’s muscle memory animated by soul memory.

    ❤️ Our Lives Follow What the Heart Loves

    This has profound implications for daily life. Many of our choices—whether noble or self-indulgent—don’t originate in careful reasoning. We don’t choose lust, laziness, or cruelty because they “make sense.” We follow them because our hearts are inclined that way. In the same way, acts of generosity, courage, or self-sacrifice often arise from deep formation—not from logic alone.

    As St. Augustine once wrote, “You have made us for Yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.”

    In other words: we move toward what we love. And we often love before we think.

    🧭 A Shift in Questions

    Modern people often ask, “Does this make sense?” But ancient wisdom might challenge us to ask instead:

    “Does this feel right? Does this align with what my heart knows to be good, true, and beautiful?”

    These are questions of orientation, not calculation. Discernment isn’t just analysis—it’s listening to the deepest parts of who we are.

    ✝️ Integrating Heart, Mind, and Spirit

    Faith traditions—particularly Christianity—don’t reject reason, but they insist that reason must be integrated with the heart and the body. We are whole persons, not brains on sticks.

    “We don’t think our way into virtue—we live our way there, led by what our hearts have already chosen.”

    The goal is not to suppress the heart in favor of reason, but to form the heart rightly—so that its intuitive guidance leads us toward love, not away from it.

    🌱 Final Thought: Relearning to Listen

    We know more than we can say. We feel more than we can explain. And we often decide before we fully understand why. That’s not a flaw—it’s part of being human. And if we can learn to listen to our hearts—not the surface emotions, but the deep, formed desires—we may rediscover a kind of wisdom that has been with us all along.

    Let the heart know. Let the body follow. And let grace shape them both.

  • Flourishing in Perspective: Peterson and the Christian Vision

    In a culture that often celebrates comfort and convenience, both Jordan Peterson and Christian theology offer a countercultural challenge. They each present flourishing—not as a passive state of ease, but as a journey of responsibility, transformation, and sacrificial love. Yet the Christian perspective completes what Peterson begins, giving his psychological insights the fullness of spiritual meaning.

    🔹 What Peterson Contributes: Strength in Suffering

    Jordan Peterson stresses that flourishing demands inner strength. It isn’t about being upbeat or avoiding suffering—it’s about confronting hardship with courage and integrity.

    “You should be the strongest person at your father’s funeral.”
    — Jordan Peterson

    This line conveys a stark truth: flourishing—and sanctity—require resilience and the capacity to carry what must be carried. It’s about strength molded through suffering, not shielded from it.

    🔹 Shared Insights: Responsibility, Truth, and Sacrifice

    Despite their differing foundations, Peterson’s and the Christian vision of flourishing share important commonalities:

    • Voluntary responsibility – both see growth through willingly accepting life’s burdens
    • Pursuit of meaning – flourishing means living for something greater than yourself
    • Truth and moral clarity – both champion honesty in thought, word, and deed
    • Transformation through suffering – hardship shapes maturity and spiritual depth

    In both frameworks, flourishing is never about comfort—it is forged in purposeful struggle, interior growth, and relational depth.

    🔹 Where the Christian Vision Gives Peterson’s View Fullness

    Here’s the key insight: the Christian account of flourishing fills out Peterson’s framework with transcendent significance.

    Peterson’s understanding highlights how to develop psychological and moral strength—but Christianity answers the question of why this matters. It grounds flourishing in:

    • Union with Christ, not just self-discipline
    • Divine grace, not merely human effort
    • Redemptive suffering, a path to spiritual transformation
    • Eternal purpose, not just existential meaning

    In short, the Christian understanding of flourishing gives Peterson’s version its fullness of meaning. It transforms flourishing from self-development into participation in God’s life and eternal love.

    🔹 Strength Ordered to Love and Grace

    Peterson’s insights challenge us not to settle for safety or superficial success—but Christianity invites us to go deeper.

    What if the strength that Peterson urges—fortitude under pressure, responsibility for others, unwavering truth—is precisely the spiritual muscle needed to live out God’s call to radical love and holiness?

    In Christ, flourishing becomes more than self-actualization; it becomes self-giving, sanctifying, and eternal.

    🕊 Final Thought

    “Flourishing” often seems like a self-help slogan. But both Jordan Peterson and the Christian tradition insist it is far more profound—and demanding.

    • Peterson helps recover the lost virtues of responsibility, courage, and truth.
    • Christianity shows that those virtues are meant for union with God, lived out in love and sacrifice.

    Growth in character and integrity is vital—but Christ gives it depth, purpose, and foreverness.

    “The glory of God is man fully alive.” — St. Irenaeus

    Peterson prepares the ground. Christ fulfills the promise. And in their harmony, we glimpse the fullness of what it means to truly flourish—psychologically, morally, spiritually, and eternally.

    Developed with assistance from ChatGPT