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  • Build on the Rock:

    Build on the Rock:

    A Hero’s Journey of Real Spiritual Transformation

    Thursday, December 4th — Advent Reflection

    Readings: Isaiah 26:1–6 • Psalm 118 • Matthew 7:21,24–27
    Liturgical Color: Violet (Advent)

    Advent is a season of waiting, watching, and rebuilding the inner life. The readings for today speak with a single voice: your soul must be founded on the Rock, because storms will come. Not just external troubles, but the storms inside the human heart—fear, temptation, pride, confusion, and despair.

    Isaiah, the Psalmist, and Jesus Himself give us three images:
    a strong city, a sacred gate, and a house on solid rock.
     Together, they outline the path of every spiritual hero—from the prophets, to the saints, to ordinary men and women trying to follow God today.

    Let’s walk through the readings with Catholic wisdom, mythological insight, and psychological truth—so we can act on them, not just hear them.

    Isaiah: Open the Gates and Enter the Strong City

    Isaiah sees a vision of the soul as a strong city, built by God Himself:

    “We have a strong city… Open the gates! Let the upright nation come in… Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord is the everlasting Rock.”

    The imagery is rich and precise:

    • The city is the human soul
    • The walls and ramparts are the virtues that protect us
    • The gates are the choices of the will

    Only those who trust in the Lord, who keep their minds “steadfast,” can enter.

    In mythic language, this moment is the hero approaching the threshold.
    Every great story has this scene:

    • Odysseus at the gates of the underworld
    • Aeneas at the temple doors
    • Frodo at the borders of Mordor
    • Christ at the entrance of the tomb

    But Scripture adds something deeper:
    The strength of the city is not your own willpower. God Himself is the foundation.
     The hero does not face chaos alone. The hero faces chaos with God.

    Psalm 118: The Gate of Holiness

    The Psalm continues the same theme:

    “Open to me the gates of holiness… This is the Lord’s own gate where the just may enter.”

    The pilgrim approaches the Temple and knocks. The question from inside is implied:
    Who may enter?

    The answer is not:

    • “I am strong.”
    • “I am important.”
    • “I have influence.”

    The answer is:
    “The Lord is my refuge.”

    Psychology says the same:
    When your core identity rests on anything unstable—success, emotions, reputation, strength—your inner world collapses when those things shift.
    But when identity rests on God, the soul stands firm.

    Jesus: Build Your House on the Rock

    In the Gospel, Jesus gives the image most people know:
    Two builders. Two foundations. Two futures.

    But He adds a detail that cuts straight to the heart:

    Both men hear His words. Only one acts.

    This is the decisive moment of the Hero’s Journey—when knowing is no longer enough.
    The hero must obey.
    The hero must choose.
    The hero must cross the threshold into action.

    Jesus says plainly:

    “Everyone who listens to these words of mine and acts on them will be like the wise man who built his house on rock.”

    Storms hit both houses.
    Faith does not guarantee ease.
    Faith guarantees endurance.

    The Psychology: Two Builders, Two Brains

    There’s a psychological layer here too.

    The house on rock

    represents a life governed by the higher faculties:

    • Reason
    • Conscience
    • Long-term vision
    • Stability
    • Sacrifice
    • Grace-supported will

    The house on sand

    represents a life governed by the lower systems:

    • Impulse
    • Emotion without discipline
    • Ego and appearance
    • Social pressure
    • Immediate pleasure

    Neuroscience confirms what Scripture teaches:
    When stress comes, the “lower” regions dominate unless the higher faculties are formed and anchored.

    Storms—suffering, fear, temptation, failure—expose the foundation of the soul.

    Mythic Parallels: Every Hero Faces the Storm

    Every ancient story knows this truth:

    • Gilgamesh meets the flood
    • Jonah meets the tempest
    • Odysseus meets the sea
    • Aeneas meets the burning city
    • Christ meets the Cross

    Heroes are not defined by the absence of storms, but by the strength of their foundation.

    Myths point to it.
    Psychology explains it.
    Catholic faith reveals it:
    The foundation is Christ Himself.

    Catholic Exegesis: The Rock Has a Name

    The Church Fathers are unanimous:

    • Christ is the Rock (1 Cor 10:4)
    • His teaching is the Rock
    • The Church is the Rock
    • Grace that strengthens the will is the Rock

    St. Augustine:
    “The house is faith; the foundation is Christ.”

    St. Gregory the Great:
    “To hear without acting is to build in the imagination.”

    St. Thomas Aquinas:
    “The foundation of the spiritual life is humility.”

    So the Rock is not self-help.
    The Rock is not moralism.
    The Rock is not positive thinking.

    The Rock is a Person.
    A relationship.
    A covenant.
    A surrender.

    How to Build on the Rock Today

    Here is the practical plan Jesus gives:

    1. Listen to His words

    Read Scripture.
    Study the faith.
    Let the Church teach you.

    2. Act on His words

    Do one concrete thing today:
    Forgive.
    Pray.
    Serve.
    Confess.
    Cut out a vice.
    Re-establish order.

    The hero’s gate is action.

    3. Trust God more than yourself

    Say:
    “Lord, I want Your will more than comfort.”

    4. Build habits that hold under pressure

    Virtue is spiritual architecture.
    The sacraments are reinforcement beams.
    Prayer is the daily maintenance.

    5. When the storm comes, choose to stand

    Do not fear the wind.
    Do not panic at the rain.
    Do not believe the lie that you are alone.

    The storm is not your enemy.
    The storm reveals your foundation.

    The Call: Enter the Gate. Stand on the Rock.

    Advent invites you to rebuild your life on Christ.

    Isaiah says: Enter the city.
     The Psalm says: Come through the gate.
     Jesus says: Stand on the Rock.

    The message is simple and strong:

    Your life has a structure.
     Your soul has a destiny.
     Your choices build a house that will either stand or fall.

    So today, choose to act.
    Choose to trust.
    Choose to build.
    Choose the Rock.

    And when the rains fall and the floods rise and the winds tear at everything—
    you will stand.
     And your endurance will give glory to God.

    Developed with assistance from ChatGPT-5

  • The Best Version of Yourself—or Something Greater?

    I first heard the phrase “the best version of yourself” on a business trip to Singapore. Later I heard Matthew Kelly use it, and I wondered—who said it first? Did he pick it up somewhere, or did others pick it up from him?

    Either way, whenever I hear it, I start asking questions. How many versions of myself are there supposed to be? It almost sounds like we’re meant to carry around a closet of personalities. “Today I’ll be Mr. Jekyll. Tomorrow I’ll be the thief. On Sunday I’ll put on my Christian self.” If that’s the case, then which one is the authentic self? And if I have to choose my “best” version, what does that say about all the rest?

    Maybe I’m on version 2.8 of my “best self” today—but what about 2.9, or 3.0? What if the best I can muster still isn’t very good? Do I just keep patching and upgrading like faulty software? Or will people ask, “Is that really your best version, or are you holding something back?”

    The more I hear this phrase, the more I think it misses the point. It makes “the best version of yourself” sound like something you accomplish on your own. But the truth is different: the best version of me is nothing compared to letting Christ live through me.

    And strangely enough, the more I put others first, the more “myself” I become. When I serve, I am surrounded by love and goodwill that multiplies my life far beyond what I could build alone. My “best version” is not about polishing up a private identity—it’s about creating the best version of my service, the best version of my vocation.

    So maybe the question isn’t, What’s the best version of yourself? but Who lives in you? Who do you belong to? Because if it’s just me, the best I can do is never enough. But if it’s Christ—then there is no limit.

    Epilogue: Where Did the Phrase Come From?

    The phrase “the best version of yourself” has become popular in motivational and self-help circles, but it has been especially tied to the work of Matthew Kelly, the Catholic author and speaker. Kelly made it a central theme in his books and talks, and for many people, the phrase is now inseparable from his message of spiritual renewal.

    That said, the idea itself isn’t unique to him. The broader self-improvement world has long promoted similar concepts about unlocking your potential, achieving your highest goals, or striving to become your “best self.”

    But here is the caution: when this phrase is left vague or purely self-focused, it can become just another slogan. It risks making people restless, always chasing after some imagined “best” that never arrives.

    Which brings us back to the Christian answer. The “best version” of you is not something you design or manufacture—it is what happens when Christ lives in you. Left to ourselves, we are always chasing. With Him, we are finally becoming.

    Developed with assistance from ChatGPT-5